On Monday night I joined three pastor friends for a meal at Outback. When the food was brought out the waitress really messed up our order–so much so that the proprietor came out apologized and said he would take care of two of our meals.
When the waitress came back we began to talk to her and to try to encourage her. As we continued to talk my friend Ryan began to talk to her about her faith in Christ. He asked her three great questions:
- Who was Jesus?
- What did Jesus do?
- Why does that matter?
She was ready for the first two answers, but she couldn’t answer the third. As Ryan shared with her she began to cry and you could tell that God was working in her life. We asked if she had a Bible and she said she didn’t. We promised to bring her one and told her that we would continue to pray for her.
The next night we stopped by with a brand new Bible. Ryan brought it to her and he said that when she saw him she said, “I didn’t think you were going to come back.”
There was a time when I would have used a time like that to press the person to “Pray the Prayer.” I would have felt like a failure if I shared the message and didn’t get her to pray, but I have come to understand this truth—we plant seeds, we water the seeds, but God causes the growth.
Will Metzger said, “Francis Shaeffer was once asked the question, ‘What would you do if you met a really modern man on a train and you had just an hour to talk to him about the gospel?’ He replied, ‘I’ve said over and over again, I would spend 45-50 minutes on the negative, to really show him his dilemma—that is he is morally dead—then I’d take 10-15 minutes to preach the Gospel. I believe that much of our evangelistic and personal work today is not clear simply because we are too anxious to get to the answer without having a man realize the real cause of his sickness, which is true moral guilt in the presence of God.’”
Are you confident in God’s ability to save? One of the great problems in many of the modern methods of evangelism and decision based preaching is we simply usurp the work of the Spirit. We jump right over the sickness to the cure, offer the pill that cures (the sinners prayer), and then offer immediate assurance that you are eternally secure in heaven. Is that how Jesus did evangelism?
It’s interesting to see in John’s Gospel the number of times John said, “Many believed in him.” In John 2:23-24 we find that many believed in Jesus when they saw the signs he was doing, but John literally says, “But Jesus on his part did not believe them because he knew all people…” In John 8:31 Jesus said to the Jews who had believed in him, “If you abide in my word, you are truly my disciples, and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”
I think there are times to lead people to profess their faith in Christ, but there are also times when you and I must simply trust the Holy Spirit to do the work of regeneration. I am confident that the waitress will come to Christ. She promised to read the Gospel of John and I know the Holy Spirit will work in her life. We could have talked her into something that someone else could have come along and talked her out of, but the moment the Spirit turns on the light in her life—no one will be able to turn it off!
Last year while we were in Peru I found out that my translator had not been born again. The first day I asked her to read John 1. We talked about it the next day and then I asked her to read John 2. We talked about that chapter that day and then she agreed to read John 3. The next day I asked her what she thought and she said, “I think I am ready to be born again.” That wasn’t something I did—that was something the Spirit did.
We must witness, we must evangelize, but we must do it in the power of the Spirit and not with clever human sales tricks. God is the evangelizer—we share, but He saves! We plant, we water, but God grows to maturity and to reap before the fruit is ripe is to usurp the work of the Holy Spirit.
Tomorrow I want to share 5 foundational principles for evangelism.