One of the greatest areas of confusion in the church is the area of judging…we are forbidden to try to judge motives, but we are called to judge fruit. In fact, we have the responsibility to evaluate ourselves and to evaluate the lives of our brothers and sisters and to make judgments based upon our actions. If they are not living a life that demonstrates transformation we have every right to doubt the sincerity of their salvation and to confront them about it. Let me say it a little differently—if we are not living a life that demonstrates transformation the church has every right to confront us about it and to take us though the Matthew 18 process.
The concern of the Bible is not so much that you profess faith as that you possess faith. Faith that is claimed must be demonstrated. We are not talking about perfection here and there are differing degrees of growth, but there must be a demonstration. The demonstration is not the cause of your salvation—it is the result of your salvation. How can a person who has been justified not be changed? Once you are saved God begins the process of conforming you into the image of Christ and moves you toward glorification. We know of that process as the process of sanctification. God does not skip sanctification in the lives of any of His children.
Listen to what Jesus said in Matthew 7, “Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves. By their fruit you will recognize them. Do people pick grapes from thorn bushes or figs from thistles? Likewise, every good tree bears good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit. A good tree cannot bear bad fruit and a bad tree cannot bear good fruit. Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. Thus by their fruits you will recognize them. Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only he who does the will of my Father who is in heaven…” Strong words, but true. We must expect the fruit of our lives to back up the words of our faith. WE must expect it in our own lives and we must expect it in the lives of others.
So how does this apply to you in personal evangelism? I want to suggest several things:
First, know what it is you are trying to achieve. You are setting out to make disciples. That means you share the entire Gospel with them—you don’t water it down so they will pray the prayer.
We reached several Muslims in Africa. One of the things we had to do was ask them—do you understand that by professing Jesus as your Lord you are rejecting Mohammed? Many said yes, but some said, “No, I want Jesus and Mohammed.” That isn’t possible. Know what you are trying to achieve—it is leading someone to follow Jesus as Savior and Lord.
Second, know your part in the process. You are called to share the Gospel. God draws, convicts, gives the gift of faith, and enables the person to believe. He is sovereign throughout the entire process. When you step out into the Holy Spirit’s role and try to pressure them into making a decision you may get them to pray a prayer, but you probably won’t see transformation.
Third, trust in the Sovereignty of God. Many people came to Jesus seeking eternal life and many found it, but Jesus was willing to let the Rich Young Ruler walk away as well as many others. Don’t feel like you have to close the deal every time.
That doesn’t mean you should shy away from trying to close the deal, but don’t feel like you are a failure because they rejected the invitation. If they do—they are not rejecting you—they are rejecting the Gospel and your call is to present it. You plant, you water, but let God cause it to grow.
Finally, don’t ever think the process is over because they have prayed and been dunked.
You and I are spiritually liable for every person you lead to Christ. You become Spiritual Fathers to them and you call is to teach them to be followers of Jesus.